3 years ago today, my smokin' hot husband asked me to marry him.
I was totally expecting it.
Well, kind of.
The week before it happened, we were making dinner at his apartment and he said to me "Hey, don't make any plans this weekend."
Um okay, ridiculously good looking boyfriend. I'm totally and pathetically in love with you and the way you take charge like that kinda makes me want to rip your clothes off, sooo... you can have anything you dang well please. Including my weekend. Whatever.
I knew he was planning on proposing at some point and I also knew he was having a hard time keeping it a secret from me, because we were so used to telling each other everything, so I didn't ask too many questions. Just the important one.
"Sounds good." I said "What should I wear?"
Priorities, people. It's good to have them.
"Something nice, but warm." he answered. And the conversation was over.
For the next few days I scoured my closet for the perfect outfit. The outfit that I would wear when the man I adored popped the big question.
...But what on earth did 'Nice but Warm' mean?
Like, Cocktail Dress Nice?... Snowsuit Warm? ...How would that even work??
IT MADE NO SENSE.
So I went looking for advice. At the perfect place, of course...
BEAUTY SCHOOL.
But I was desperate.
I asked a group of gals in my class, explaining my cluelessness about this HORRIBLY COMPLICATED Nice But Warm situation.
"You should get some black leggings and cut slits all over them, then wear them with leather boots and a sheer top!"
...Ok. This was not helping.
All I could do was stare at this girl like she had three heads.
What doesn't she understand about 'Nice', 'Warm', and 'Not like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman'? And did I really have to bother explaining that last part?
Whatever.
The weekend came and I eventually settled on an outfit involving a denim skirt, tights, and UGG's.
Not exactly making fashion history, considering how much I spazzed out over the whole thing. But it would work, just as well.
On saturday night I casually asked "So where are we going tomorrow?"
"Well, I figured we'd take a drive up to Estes Park, since we don't have anything else going on."
..Since we don't have anything else going on...?...
"Oh ok,that sounds fun." I replied "How long does it take to get up there?"
"Huh...I don't even know. I should probably check that."
As I watched the man of my dreams mumble to himself while searching through Google Maps, it hit me.
He is totally....not... going to propose! There is no way that THIS guy, Mr. On-Time-For-Everything, Detail-Oriented, Planner himself, would EVER hash out a proposal scheme without knowing, probably down to the minute, how long it would take him to get us somewhere. This is SO not happening tomorrow!
The next morning he picked me up and we headed up to the cold, snowy mountains.
While we enjoyed each others company just as much as we always did, the conversation wasn't exactly...flowing.
I was trying hard to not to be disappointed, or at least let my disappointment show.
Just because it's not happening today, doesn't mean it's never going to happen. I mean, we have a plan. We've had numerous conversations about our future, and I know that he wants to be with me. He's going to propose at some point. Pull yourself together! Ugh, but I was so wanting it to be today..
As we drove into the entrance of Rocky Mountain National Park, he interrupted my pitty party, "What are you thinking about?"
"Uhh... Moose!" I randomly pulled out of thin air. Really. Moose? Way to go, Elise. "...I've never seen one up close. It'd be cool to spot one today. What are you thinking about?"
"I have to go to the bathroom."
Great. This was really getting romantic.
After we found a little rest area and used their charming facilities, we continued the beautiful and picturesque drive we were on.
A couple minutes later, we pulled up to an overlook. We got out of his truck and he said he wanted to show me the view from the top of the rock formation.
I started climbing ahead of him and quickly became preoccupied with the concern that this whole skirt/tights combination was not working out in my favor.
I'm totally going to moon him (so much for not looking like a Hooker), then he's going to tease me about it, and when I quickly try to cover up, I'll slip on this icy rock and plummet to my death. Fantastic.
But I made it to the top, somehow managing to keep all of my business appropriately covered up, and I was instantly dumbfounded.
The view was nothing short of majestic. A sea of hundreds of glorious evergreen trees covered in white, with the still and silent snowflakes gradually descending down on them. Like a choir soundlessly singing it's own song of God's perfection.
"This is my absolute favorite spot on earth." Luke said from behind me.
I turned around and my heart skipped a beat as I watched him getting down on one knee.
OH MY GOSH.
He pulled the most beautiful, intricate ring I had ever seen out of his pocket and asked "Elise, will you be my wife?"
I was already laughing, crying, throwing my arms around his neck and kissing him before I exclaimed "Yes!"
I took off my left glove, and he slipped the ring onto my finger. A perfect fit.
I tried as hard as I could to focus on his smiling face, but Holy Crap, this ring was just so SPARKLY!
We sat down up there and he got out his bible (which he had apparently brought up with him).
"I want to read you the story of the first marriage and then pray for us."
Of course you want to do that. Because you're annoyingly perfect. And you love Jesus. Which is so hot. And oh my gosh this ring is SO SHINY!
He read out of Genesis, and then prayed for us. For our engagement, our marriage, and our life together. It was a moment I would cherish always.
When he was done, I all of the sudden remembered something "Wait, Did you ask my Dad for his blessing? Did he say 'yes'??"
"Yeah, about that.. I have a funny story for you."
He started explaining that 5 days earlier he had an "appointment" for a conversation with my Dad. A conversation that was assumed, by everyone who knew about it, would be over the phone, since my parents live in California and we lived in Colorado. But much to my family's surprise, when 6pm monday evening finally rolled around, instead of a phone ringing, they got a knock at their door. It was Luke. He had flown all the way to California, only staying for a few hours, just so he could ask for my hand in marriage, in person. And then right after having a good and thorough conversation with my Dad, Luke drove his rental car back to the airport, leaving with the blessing he came for.
I stared at him with my jaw dropped as he told me all of this. I threw my arms around him again and kissed him some more.
"Thank you." I whispered in his ear, blinking back tears.
I can't believe he would do all of this for me. I don't deserve anyone this honorable. This Hero, who treats me like.. I'm worth it.
There was God's abundant grace in my life. He was giving me to a godly man who would protect and fight for me as long he lived, which was nothing short of an act of mercy. And that day, I was sure of that.
We eventually climbed down from the overlook, and because my new fiance was the ALWAYS PREPARED type, he got out his camera and tripod,and we took a couple pictures to commemorate the occasion.
We spent the rest of the day calling our family, making wedding plans, celebrating with our friends at church, and STARING AT MY GORGEOUS RING.
(But that was probably just me.)
It was a blissful day.
And is one of the many, many reasons that the man who I married is so smokin' hot.